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#1 Posted : Monday, December 07, 2020 8:38:12 PM(UTC)

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So, the process of divorce begins. How to behave in this case?
Be patient Do it for yourself and for your children, if you have any. They need an adequate mom. And dad, it is desirable that he also be a person with whom the relationship will not end. Your divorce should not affect the children and their lives in any way, at least not with the least discomfort for them. So get yourself together. Keep calm. Don't be annoyed even if your ex-spouse misbehaves and offends you. You should be as prepared as possible for this. Look for comfort from people close to you, from children. Make sure that your husband is informed about a divorce and in case you are not sure about his whereabouts you can read more here https://onlinedivorcer.c...t-lives-in-another-state or hire a process server to deliver divorce papers for him.
Save Human Relations Ensuring that your relationship is and remains normal is the task of any people in a divorce. This situation becomes even more relevant if there are joint children. After all, they will suffer if mom and dad, after a divorce, begin to communicate really fiercely. Therefore, during the divorce proceedings, avoid resentment and insults. Do not start remembering all the sins of each other. Ideally, it is better to develop such a position that you forgive him for everything and ask him to forgive you too.
No threats. No hatred and anger. No scandals, even if the man does not behave exactly the way you would like. Perhaps, time will pass, the ex-husband will calm down and take a different look at his life and the situation with your divorce. In the meantime, he probably has the right to be not entirely adequate if you were the initiator of the separation. Sincerely forgive him and mentally let him go in peace. In this case, it will be easier for you to perceive the man's behavior.
Don't focus on the material side
It is clear that almost every woman is interested in such a question. But if you talk only about this or insist on the unconditional observance of all your rights and guarantees by the ex-spouse right now, then he will get even more angry. "Oh, you lived with me only because of the money!" And hence even more inappropriate behavior, and you "broke a bunch of new firewood." What for? Of course, your rights and your children's rights must be respected. But do not dwell on this. Talk about such questions casually, unobtrusively. Or rather, don't just talk about it. Discuss how you will continue to live, how to raise children, how you will help each other, and so on. And mention alimony as a matter of course.
Divorce is always difficult. It is even more difficult if a woman has to not only take the initiative, but also organize this process. But a person who is determined to start a new life will certainly overcome all obstacles and make sure that everyone only gets better from the decision. The main thing is to remember: in any case, it is better to stay in normal human relations with your ex-spouse.
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